Hi, my name is Eksi. It's my real name, not a nickname. I live in Jakarta, Indonesia. This is my microblog, I migrate from the old-school blog to a more simpler one. I will post pictures, quote, texts, basically anything that interest me. So I choose them based on my perspectives. Follow me on twitter @eksinads. Also see my dailyshots.

27

Feb

“ My goal as a parent is to prepare you for the future. Not to make you like me.

Amy Chua.

26

Feb

April Wheeler: Don’t you see? That’s the whole idea! You’ll be able to do what you should have been allowed to do seven years ago, you’ll have the time. For the first time in your life, you’ll have the time to find out what it is you actually want to do. And when you figure it out, you’ll have the time and the freedom, to start doing.

Frank Wheeler: This doesn’t seem very realistic.

April Wheeler: No, Frank. This is what’s unrealistic. It’s unrealistic for a man with a fine mind to go on working year after year at a job he can’t stand. Coming home to a place he can’t stand, to a wife who’s equally unable to stand the same things. And you know what the worst part of it is? Our whole existence here is based on this great premise that we’re special. They we’re superior to the whole thing. But we’re not. We’re just like everyone else! We bought into the same, ridiculous delusion. That we have to resign from life and settle down the moment we have children. And we’ve been punishing each other for it.

26

Feb

“ I wanted IN. I just wanted us to live again. For years I thought we’ve shared this secret that we would be wonderful in the world. I don’t know exactly how, but just the possibility kept me hoping. How pathetic is that? So stupid. To put all your hopes in a promise that was never made. Frank knows what he wants, he found his place, he’s just fine. Married, two kids, it should be enough. It is for him. And he’s right; we were never special or destined for anything at all.

Those lines, they just hit me.

April Wheeler on Revolutionary Road.

22

Feb

Nick Miller: Travel

Travel is little beds and cramped bathrooms. It’s old television sets and slow internet connections. Travel is extraordinary conversations with ordinary people. It’s waiters, gas station attendants, and housekeepers magically becoming the most interesting people in the world. It’s churches that…

Traveling is: the realization that you may have been born in the wrong country

21

Aug

I swear I’m gonna have a red furniture on my house one day.

15

Aug

“ Looking back, she says that her best decisions surrounded her with smart people and forced her to move before she thought she was ready, taking her out of her comfort zone.

from the short bio of Marissa Mayer, Vice President of Search Products & User Experience.

04

Jun

“ A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself, to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.

via Dinda’s posterous. Been reading her writings and couldn’t stop my tears from falling :’(

15

May

Good old days. These two are my best friends :-)

Good old days. These two are my best friends :-)

04

Apr

Went to UI Depok today to go biking. Unfortunately the bikes are all borrowed so we decided to walk down the biking lane. It was quite exhausting but fun. I feel fresh. We walked about an hour.